
Hello Red Clay Soldiers! Jay asked me to share my side of the gift guide this year — the things I’ve loved, used, or have been quietly hinting about for months. I can’t fit them all into one guide, so here’s part one. Some are practical, some are indulgent, and a few are just plain fun. Here are a few of my favorite things that I know your better halves will love:

From Top Left:
1. Tiffany & Co. Bone Cuff: Jay gave me this about ten years ago, and besides my engagement ring, it’s the piece of jewelry I wear the most. Timeless, bold, and beautiful — it goes with everything.
2. Lilysilk Silk/Wool Oversized Shirt: So chic and effortless. It pairs with just about everything — jeans, leather pants, skirts — and always looks elevated.
3. Borsalino Hat: We all have plenty of beige… add some fun, seasonal color to mix things up!
4. The V One Piece Swimsuit: The kid-free trip suit. Pair this with plane tickets to South Beach or St. Barth… trust me.
5. Higurashi Secateurs: I’ve gotten really into gardening over the past year, and I appreciate these more than I can say. Beautifully made and satisfyingly sharp.
6. Cordee Phone Case & Strap: In a fun color so she doesn’t lose it at the bottom of her purse (again).
7. Saint Jane Lip Oil: The perfect stocking stuffer. Go ahead and give her three — one for the car, one for the purse, and one for backup.
8. BKR 22 oz. Water Bottle: I try to drink four of these a day. I swear water tastes better from glass than plastic — and they look great sitting on your desk or nightstand.
9. HigherDose PEMF Mat: Yep. Worth every penny. Recovery, relaxation, and total reset.
10. A Great Fiction Book: Because sometimes the best gift is quiet time and a story that pulls you in.
11. A Greenhouse: This would pair perfectly with #5 — keeps those blooms going all year long.
12. Nili Lotan Beauvais Suide Jacket: Total splurge, but wow… what a superstar piece. It’s one of those jackets you’ll have forever.
13. Balmain Clutch: Another splurge, but OMG — it’s perfect. Elegant, modern, and just the right amount of statement.
Part Two coming tomorrow…
Best list yet- lots of variety and price points. Tell Mrs. RCS thank you from all of us fellas.
Looking forward to part II.